K.I.S.S.

i was fiddling around trying to freshen up the look of the blog. due to oh-my-gwd-rip-my-eyeballs-out slow internet connection, i spent almost to days trolling the net looking for a nice template.

two days.

and then after two days, i discovered that none of them looked good or was too complicated etcetc..

thus K.I.S.S

Keep It Simple Stupid

and voila, my white page.actually, if i can, i would still change it, but to another simple template as well. we'll see

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i remember now what i wanted to talk about.

i remember in How I Met Your Mother that once there was a question which goes like this

"how long after a serious relationship can a person date again?"

not verbatim of course, but something along those lines.

the answers were

"half the time of the relationship"

i can't remember the rest, but one i do remember was this

"the time it takes for you to get from her bed to her door"

ha.

which brings me to my point.

i think the time from one relationship to another, or at least, to wanting another one, is, wait for it...

ha. when you finally can forgive (if there is a need, of course)
or more importantly, and this is the one, when all the hurt and all the pain and all the black goo in your heart has gone, leaving only traces of scars. and ashes. and wine.
really, until then, a person has no business going to find someone else.
and i think, finally, i have reached that stage. really.

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on another note, i talked to Wes today. really, i look up to him very very much. inasmuch as he says he doesn't have everything figured out, he is one of the most understanding and mature person i know. and he is caring, so yes,i raelly look up to him. we had a small talk, and there's so many things he said that struck me, and i don't know where to start, but mainly on God and  his trials and walk and it was quite inspiring. i think, hell, i HAVE to rethink my priorities. thanks alot man, i really appreciate it.

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two posts in as many days, i'm on a roll!
i have something in mind, it's called a po-....wait for it.....

jing

no song to describe what i am feeling now.....